Make Things Right

How many times have you messed up things? A lot I suppose, just like everyone has. 

It’s natural to mess up stuff, it is almost inevitable to avoid that. Everyone makes mistakes since no one is perfect. I have already talked about mistakes and how they are beneficial. 

But, what we can control, what is not inevitable, is our control over how often we mess up things, such as relationships, friendships, and work, and how we handle those mistakes afterwards, after making them. 

You are unable to undo your mistakes, but you are able to learn from them and handle similar situations in the future better. 

I am sure, everyone who is reading this right now has made mistakes, which then regretted, and sat down and wondered: Why did I do that? 

Yes, go ahead and think of times you’ve done that and wonder. Ask this question to yourself, until you have an answer. There is a reason behind your actions, for sure. Maybe it was just recklessness or not thinking the action through. That’s still a reason. 

After having the reason(s) in the palm of your hand, in the back of your mind, think of the consequences. Were they catastrophic or mild? Were they just awkward or did it change your life in a way? 

If they were just awkward, then it’s okay, you can let it go. But, if it had an impact on your life, then you should look a bit more into it. 

Start with the question: Did it impact another person? If yes, how did it impact them? If it had a serious impact, you can think of how to fix it, perhaps it will help you feel better about the mess you made. If they can get over it alone in a small amount of time, then let it go. 

Then think of ways to help the person your actions affected. There is always at least one way to help someone. 

When you help people, don’t you get a feeling of satisfaction and happiness? Personally, I feel proud of myself when I help people in need, regardless of what they are in need of.